text — un: grimmjow

[arrancar]

HUMANS
TELL ME HOW YOU CHEER EACH OTHER UP WHEN YOU'RE BEING PATHETIC AND SAD
I HAVE TRIED TO FEED MINE FOOD AND OFFER TO FIGHT HIM MULTIPLE TIMES BUT NEITHER OF THESE TACTICS HAVE WORKED
HIS SAD FEELINGS ARE ANNOYING AND MUST BE PUT TO AN END HOW DO I MAKE THEM STOP?

Comments

( text | un: dream )

[dreamlords]

Why can he not be sad?

[arrancar]

because it feels fucking gross why else?

ᴜɴ: ᴛᴏʏᴍᴀᴋᴇʀ.

[lackluster]

If offering fights didn't work...

Sometimes you just need to knock 'em out.

[arrancar]

that won't fix it

he's just going to continue being sad after he wakes up

[redsoil]

— sutekh

Have you asked your human WHY they're feeling sad?

[arrancar]

no

why the fuck should i care?

text ↪ un: 十五

[zangetsu]

（ can you feel this pulse of sheer disgruntled anger, frustration and mounting desire to throw you into a pit, grimmjow? it's your soulmate calling. ）

you're a bastard. take this down.

[arrancar]

( yes. yes, he can. compared to all your SAD AND GROSS FEELINGS, anger and violence is like a breath of fresh air coming from you.

it feels wonderful. keep it coming! 👉👉👉 )

no

text — un: texas ;

[healthkit]

Dunno. Think you're supposed to ask them.

[ Barring that, you can always just ignore. 😌 ]

[arrancar]

if he knew how to cheer himself up then he would have done it already

un: jjang

[pyojeol]

why are u asking us ur just gonna get a bunch of weird answers

[THERE ARE TROLLS ON THE NETHERWORK GRIMMJOW...]

does he actually like fighting or are u just making him do stuff u like??

[arrancar]

( WHY SHOULD HE BE CONCERNED ABOUT TROLLS? HE'LL JUST EAT THEM.

he has no idea what an internet troll is send help )

you're right
i haven't received a single useful answer
humans are more useless than i thought they would be

[...]

he needs to fight just as much as he needs to eat
it doesn't matter if he likes it or not

un: traveler

[unalign]

[ what is with everyone using the network as some kind of advice forum ]

You could try cracking a joke.

[ lumine no ]

[arrancar]

( what other purpose would a network serve? )

i don't know any jokes

un: yjh

[regression]

Just die.

[arrancar]

who the fuck are you?

text; un: keith

[spaceassassin]

if the personality is anything like the texting
try leaving them alone

[arrancar]

i've tried that but it hasn't worked

( it ain't like he's sticking to him 24/7 here. he has his own shit to do. )

un: 火

[chokuto]

[Don't engage. Don't engage. Don't—]

What is wrong with you?

[arrancar]

( oh look, it's the wimp. )

the problem isn't with me it's with the human stupid

@mikey

[invinciblemikey]

have you tried turning it off and on again

[arrancar]

turn what off and on again?

( that ref just soared right over his head. )

un: shiro

[constellational]

⟪ WHAT EVEN IS GOING ON!! ⟫

Have you tried listening to them...?
Maybe try and find out what's making them sad to begin with
Allow them to sort through their feelings
which can be overwhelming sometimes
Give them time
And space if needed

[arrancar]

( HE IS SEEKING HUMAN ADVICE but it turns out that humans aren't very helpful.

why can't he just cheer someone up by feeding him and taking him out for walks? what is all this bullshit about asking him how he feels and listening to his problems? )

is there no other method?

text; un: fushiguro

[shadowier]

If you're not human, then you won't understand anyway.

Offer to listen, but only if you're really going to listen, and leave him alone otherwise.

[arrancar]

how is that going to stop him from being sad?

text — un: harrington ;

[fawcetted]

idk maybe you can get him a date

what's he into?

boobies? 🍆🍆??

[ Learned that last one recently. 👍 ]

[arrancar]

how the fuck should i know?

how am i supposed to get him a date?

( and what does ANY of this have to do with eggplants???? )

[boarwitness]

Kill him.

[arrancar]

no

( that's not an option. )

un: d

[damnpire]

[wow]

Feelings are what make humans who they are. You can't get rid of them.

[arrancar]

yea i know that dipshit i'm not a fuckin moron
i'm trying to cheer him up not wipe him of his emotions

( un: mellifa | text )

[somatosensory]

What have you been feeding him?

[arrancar]

human food
what else would i feed him?

un: zagreus

[dodgeouttahell]

Could you define pathetic and sad?
What are they doing in particular?

[arrancar]

he's staying cooped up all the time

un: jonas.

[coherer]

Where to even start with this...

Actually ik exactly where to start. Saying "my human" like that is such a douchey thing to do. You don't own him. Furthermore, shoving food at him and ??? fighting him??? is not going to help at all. Let him be sad bc being here is tough for a lot of ppl. Experiencing a feeling is not going to kill you lol

And just in case the person Grimmjow's publicly gossiping about reads this: it's not pathetic to be sad. Be sad for as long as you have to. Don't listen to anybody telling you differently.

[arrancar]

who're you to say that i don't own him?

if you only have useless shit to say then you shouldn't have bothered at all

text ↪ un: 012601

[craters]

Have you asked him if he's willing to speak to a therapist or other professional? There are some mental health resources available in Hale.

[arrancar]

what

( he's seeing a lot of words but none of them make an iota of sense. )

un: soleofthedeep

[orobashi]

Dearest Grimmjow,

I can see that you have received a wide variety of replies with a wide variety of helpfulness, or lack thereof. I'd like to firstly explain that the emotions of humans are deeper than even the darkest oceans. What cheers one person up may only irritate another, for example. Truly, this is something I have pondered on for quite some time, myself...

Lacking the information of what this human friend (I assume?) of yours is like, I do have a few general pieces of advice.

One, attempt to locate the cause of the sadness. Is it an outside source, such as an incident, or words? Or is it within them, something that you can't possibly fully understand?

Proceed to step two either way. Offer your support as such: Ask if they would prefer to talk it out, to be distracted from it, or if they don't actually know what they want.

If they would like a distraction, and admit so, then the solution from that point onwards is much easier. If they either want to talk or don't know what they'd like, it becomes trickier, so please reference step one.

If the cause was outward, is it something that you can help them address? Ask if they'd like your opinion on the matter. If the cause is inward, ask if they'd like to explain it further to you, and if they'd prefer advice themselves or just companionship.

And lastly, regardless of the steps followed and the answers gathered, I believe that there is something to be treasured in having someone close. Carrying on as you normally do may just be enough to cheer them up naturally. Perhaps your focus on their sadness is only deepening it, as they may view themselves as a burden...

Of course, there are hundreds of other possibilities, and I don't have the information to properly convey a precise piece of advice. Nonetheless, I hope this is of some help.

Sincerely,
Sole of the Deep

( I'm so sorry for the tl;dr she's just like this. )

[arrancar]

( bless u kokomi but grimmjow doesn't have the patience to read all of that. i did tho and it was very cutie )

i'm not reading all of that
just get straight to the point

text | un: raindrops

[aflowers]

Sad feelings are important, you know!
Do you know why he's feeling sad? Or have you asked what you can do to help him feel better?

[arrancar]

sad feelings are gross and annoying
but i'm gonna talk to him